Wednesday, January 1, 2014

So long 2013

In 2013 I planned to be more OBEDIENT, to SERVE MORE and to be the child God is pleased with… 
and I said I just wanted to be MORE in 2013 than I was in 2012.

I did have some instances of obedience. I obviously mean that in the spiritual sense. I definitely stretched myself a time or two in this area. But I could have done more. There was one situation where I felt God was telling me to do something so I did it. And the folks involved seemed blessed by it. It was kinda a small thing, but we all know God takes the small things and makes em big. So I feel good about that. And I also tried to be more of an encourager this year. People hear enough too much negativity. It’s time we stop for a second and tell the people we care about how much they mean to us, point out the positive things, ya know?

I definitely served more this year than I did in 2012. I went to my church’s summer camp for middle schoolers as a counselor. 
I had never been away from Anthony for that long (it was 5 nights) and I was headin off to this camp without knowing anyone. But I felt like I was SUPPOSED TO GO, ya know? And it turned out to be a great experience AND I met some awesome folks that week that I’m still friends with. And I was blessed spiritually in a B I G way.

I also started teaching a small group with my friend Pennie. 
It means me and the hub have to drive separately to church on Sundays now, but I love investing in those 6th grade girls. When the school year is over, I’m gonna miss em.

The other serving thing I did was our church’s girl’s retreat. It was also a great experience and like camp, here I met some great folks that I’ve become friends with. And it's cool when the girls see me around campus and run over and hug me. 
*Side bar: I will never forget the Friday night "dance party" where our worship leader Brooke grabbed me to dance with her. And then she put her friend Cara on her shoulders. And they fell.  

Anyway, so I didn’t get it all right in 2013, but at least I was trying. There were ups and downs of course, but 2013 will go down in my memory as a good good year.

On to the less mushy stuff. Whew.

This is a recap yall. 
And don’t expect it to be brief. I mean come on. You know me.

{movies we watched}
Sherlock Holmes
Spiderman 3
Footloose (the new one)
Iron Man
Iron Man 2
Iron Man 3
Lone Ranger
Getaway
Heart of Country
Olympus Has Fallen
Hunger Games: Catching Fire
The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

{music we did}
> Boyd Tinsley of Dave Matthews Band
> Maroon 5 me & a couple girlfriends from work
> Brandon Holder our friend that plays regularly downtown
> Dave Matthews Band the hub & I went to the show in April, then the hub & his buddy went in June
> Zamily Reunion Zac Brown Band fan club event during CMA Fest
This was the first time they let fan club members have a pic 

> Zac Brown Southern Ground Food & Music Festival two nights of music mayhem WOOT WOOT - it was mostly ZBB but also included Eli Young Band, Grace Potter, Kenny Chesney, Kenny Rogers & several more... I was all about the ZBB though #awesome
> John Mayer F R E E courtesy of my sweet friend Kelly the hugger xxoo

{my photography gigs}
a slow year for me…
> 1 wedding
> 2 Senior portrait sesh’s

> Maternity sesh with my niece my first maternity shoot & it was sooo fun #thankyouPinterest


> a baby shower for a friend

> Portraits of our friends' 2 year old & some family shots

> Fall family portraits

and the best paying gig…not that it's about the money but this gig was sweet...
>> the Girl Scout daddy daughter event :- ) -> $$$ all I had to do was show up & shoot the pics
> This wasn't a "gig" but I'm throwin' it in the photog section... proof that an iPhone pic can be great - - 

> And then there's this... just because

me being me
{our trips}
Smokies in Feb
Alabama in Apr for DMB concert
Fort Walton in Sept
Smokies again after Christmas 
oh and I went to summer camp in east TN & girls retreat in KY sans the hub

{the family stuff}
> Watched boys in the fam play basketball, soccer & football we need more GIRLS in the family lol
> My niece had her TWIN BOYS… which means I’m now a G R E A T   A U N T …not even mad about it either
recent Instagram pic posted by my niece.  .  . 
try JUST TRY and handle all this cuteness

> My best friend happens to also be my sister-in-law and she turned the big FOUR OH this year
> Went to the good ole Wilson County Fair with some of the fam
> My grandmother passed away :- ( 
She's in Heaven now... so it's okay. 
We'll miss her though!

{the totally random stuff}
> lots of dinners and laughs with friends… how I love those!
> birthday celebrations
> some Girls Nights … food, laughs and love
> celebrated my 9th anniversary at my job AND the hub & I celebrated #14 on the ole ring finger #timeflies
> ran a 5K with Rhonda & Delaney and another one with my pal Angela
> we sold our Honda Civic… um yeah, so we may have owned 4 vehicles for a few months there #ohme
> considered Lasik eye correction for a minute
> I changed dentists… and my new dentist is a fella I've literally watched grow up so it’s kinda weird/cool
> planted some trees at the homestead
> lost a tree – poor little weak Dogwood RIP buddy, RIP
> we bought a new tv… we’re finally in the flat panel thin club lol
> The Office ended. I.can’t.even. >-( 
> I exercised for the first time ever on a vacation – had to throw this in
> we brought back some Whataburgers to Anth’s step brother when we came back from Alabama. #stinkycar
> Anthony played guitar at church
> my friend Bridgett is finally finished with school & doing her student teaching – that called for a celebration so I treated her to Cheesecake Factory!

> the hub & I tried a couple new restaurants in the ville – Loveless CafĂ© & Pucketts – both were delish

Thank you for reading my little blog during 2013. 
I hope 2014 is AWESOME SAUCE with a TERRIFIC CHERRY ON TOP!
xxoo
Lyndy

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

from MY family to yours, Merry Christmas

Christmas Eve night with my immediate family... 
     well it's just the best!


This was our first Christmas with my niece's twin boys Conner and Brady - they'll be 8 months old on the 26th and they were a nice addition to the Carver Christmas fun!
don't you just wanna smooch those sweet little faces?!

Conner hung out with his daddy during the gift opening

 And Brady was with mommy 

My oldest nephew Caleb is stationed at Fort Bragg and last week we found out he wasn't going to get to come home for Christmas.
Boo~ 
But he surprised us all and showed up. Apparently his superior (at the last minute) said he could take a couple days off and come home. Yay! 
What a blessing!

At my parents' house we always eat first of course, then open gifts. 
I need my nieces & nephews to stop gettin so big :-( 

After gifts there's always a game or two. 

This year it was 5 Seconds and then Scattergories. Both games were fun & provided lots of laughs. 



I love my family. They're just the best! 
God is so good! 
I hope you had a wonderful Christmas, too! 

I'll leave ya with just a few more ... 





M E R R Y C H R I S T M A S !!!

Sunday, December 22, 2013

Birthday rewind Part II

My birthday was last Tuesday. I turned 37. So there's that.

I'm dreading the big four oh but there's worse things. 
Obvy.

I have a whole lot to be thankful for. 37 years of blessings. 

And this guy at the table with me - he's at the top of the things I'm thankful for list - 
 me and my man at my birthday dinner

We try to go somewhere different, somewhere kinda neat for our birthdays and anniversaries. We try to find a place we've never been. So that means we usually end up in Nashville somewhere because we don't venture down there all that often.

This year we were talking about one place but after checkin the menu online we decided it didn't quite seem like our kind of place.

So then Anthony mentioned Puckett's. It had normal Southern comfort food type stuff on the menu so I was game! 

Off we went!

We were seated in 5 minutes without a reservation. Winning.

The server recommended the Southern Fried Chicken so that's what I ordered. 
She didn't have to twist my arm.

Doesn't it look delish?! 

And just so you know, that chicken breast was almost as big as my face. And juicyyyy! 
That cajun cornbread cake - oh that was a treat it sure was. 

Anthony went with the smoked bologna sandwich. 
He said it was really good but he ate the thigh from my entree and said mine was better. 
It's only fair, right? It was MY birthday after all. ;-)  
They have a stage inside the restaurant. Phoenix Drive entertained us a while. They sounded really good! Their harmony was tight and somethin about em reminded me of Little Big Town kinda.

So anyway, me and the hub we keep our birthdays kinda low key because they're close to the holidays (his is around Thanksgiving). 

On Monday he had text me I've struck out on your birthday gift. Nobody has what I need. 5 different stores. I suck!

So I said lol don't worry about it. 

Turns out he tried to find the Chuck Taylors I've been wanting but no one had my size. Go figure. 


But I thought it was super sweet he tried so hard. And the fact HE LISTENED to what I wanted. I.e., I hadn't specifically asked for em. 

Anyway, he gave me this sweet little birthday card though and that's always a win. 


A happy birthday night for me with my favorite fella indeed. 

Blessins. Blessins for sure!!!!

Birthday rewind Part I

I realize everybody's in Christmas mode right now, but hold up a minute cuz I had a birthday last week I gotta tell ya about. 

When you work in an office, there's gonna be cake. And maybe ice cream. 
And it'll be in the conference room.


And sometimes your coworkers are gonna try to be cute with what they tell the bakery to write on your cake. 

AND I LOVED IT!!!! 

I mean, who doesn't love being called ADORBS, right? 
And the fact that the icing is polka dots and purple. . . yesssss !!! 

Oh and in an office, sometimes your office gets kinda trashed. 

And again, I LOVED IT!!!! 

So what if it took me like 5 minutes to unwrap my mouse & log in?! It's not like you're setting productivity records on your birthday anyway. 

They even taped my light switch. 
Yeah.
So I sat in the dark a few minutes. What of it?
I heard my boss was the ring leader of the mess. I'll spare ya all the pics, but just believe me when I say it was quite a sight.  

And nobody hates walking in to a nifty gifty like this pretty little thing...   


And then another... 
     Someone's feelin the love.... 

My friend Brandi is such a thoughtful gal. She even double checked with my hub about the CD before getting it. Kelly Clarkson is only just about my fave PLUS this is Christmas music. Woot woot! 
And the scarfy was so perf I wore it that night to my birthday dinner out on the town. 
More on that later. 

Brandi got this little necklace a few birthdays back for me & me being the goob I am, I tuck it away every year and bring it out ON MY BIRTHDAY. 

I usually wear it all day but this year I only wore it for the conference room cake. ;-) 

I didn't wear the tiara this year. What is wrong with me? 

My boss was out of the office that day and she asked for a pic of me because she heard my hair was extra cute that day. 
I of course obliged. 
My coworker told the boss I looked so pretty that day I should be written up for it. LOL 

Lotsa people wished me a happy birthday. I felt so loved. 

My first happy birthday text came from my nephew Cullen (whose birthday is the day before mine) and then I got one from another nephew (Kerby, the adopted one whose birthday is 11 days before mine). I got several more texts throughout the day. 

At work I opened my email to some happy birthday emails. Got em from people I used to work with, family, church friends and there was even one from my hubby's step-cousin. (thumbs up)
  
I got the happy birthday song sung to me by my oldest brother and his kiddos. 

When I got home from work I told Anthony I reallllllly had a nice birthDAY & it was mainly because people took a minute to tell me happy birthday. 

Just remembering my birthday makes me extra happy because when your birthday is so close to Christmas you kinda feel like it gets overlooked a bit in all the hustle & bustle. But this year I felt like everybody cared & wanted to make my day special. And that's cool! 

It's not about a gift. Not at all. 
Just remembering is enough for me!

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Ugly Christmas Sweater Party

Ugly Christmas Sweater Soiree 2013 

My friend Brandi is the hostess with the mostest - the one in the OCD shirt and homemade bow skirt. 
Not only does she put up 7 Christmas trees in her house, she's an excellent cook, an awesome wife & mom, a crafty McCrafterson AND always looks like she just stepped out of a fashion mag. 

In 2011 she started hosting an Ugly Christmas Sweater Party & every year it gets bigger and better. 

Well, this year Angela ramped up her game with her ensemble... she usually just wears a sweater and jeans. 
But this year... this year she ... 
welllll... I think the picture speaks for itself. Check it out. 

She even had jingle bells sewn into her skirt. 
So full of Christmas cheer she was. . .
She won the top prize. 
It was really no contest. 

Here are the big winners of the night -
L-R Alice for Best Accessories; Amy for Most Wearable in Public; Jenny for Best Sweater (best meaning worst lol); and Angela for Best Overall Look

My outfit wasn't good enough for any of the top prizes, but I was still proud of its uglyness. 
My sweater, turtleneck and pants came from Goodwill. . . aren't they precious? 
Pretty sure the pants are pajamas, but the point was to be UGLY so....


I made my hat the night before the party. 
It's made from 3 pieces of cardstock taped together. The garland and mini ornaments were from Dollar General and on the cheap. I made the star from cardstock and I made the lights from cardstock, too. I kinda wished for a strand of battery operated lights, but when ya decide to do stuff at the last minute sometimes ya gotta improvise. 

We played some games at the party, too. After all, what's a party without G A M E S?!

First up was charades/draw on the white board. The theme was Christmas songs and movies. We had some good laughs with that game. 

My team won. Of course.

Next we had to tear a Christmas tree from construction paper behind our backs without looking. 

Not.as.easy.as.it.sounds.

Katie won the prize for the best tree.

Angela did not. 
 
The next game was to decorate your tree (a person of your choosing) with only some construction paper, aluminum foil and tape. And one pair of scissors. :-/ 

Oh, and you only have 10 minutes. 



My team won - I'd like to think our aluminum foil "light strand" was the game changer. And (ahem) that just happened to be MY idea. 

Another way to win a prize was to guess how many ornaments were hangin' on this here tree. 

I actually won because I was the closest to the actual number. I was within 25. If you're curious about the number, post a comment with your guess. And don't guess 700 like my goofy husband. Good grief.

My prize was an Andy Williams Christmas CD and a bag of Hershey caramel kisses. And that didn't make me mad. ;-) Cuz those kisses happen to be my fave & who can find fault with a classic like Andy Williams?! 

Anyway it was a fun, fun, FUN night with cool ladies. Life is better with good folks like them. 

And I may or may not be already planning my 2014 outfit. hehehe